D said: Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

And I replied:" It only makes me miss you more."

=D

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Desmond= Lucky to have some Amazing Friends.

I should consider myself fortunate to have a few great friends. They never fail to give me some pretty good advices whenever I need those. Especially when you can't seems to find anyone to talk to, they are always there.

For this girl, Pei Jie, she is one amazing girl. I remember I was feeling so down because finally, I couldn't take those jokes and humiliations coming from people after keeping it to myself for such a long period of time. I hated myself at that time, about my sexuality and not capable of having a good future. Was so upset and told her. Guess what she said to me?

"Maybe you should reflect about your own thinking. Try to think of what you really want for your life. Set that as a Goal. Do not change your decision so easily just because of some bad comments."

And I was still really emotional and telling her how badly people just wanna see me fall.

And she said,"Why care about what others think about you? After all you still live for yourself. Set a target and show them you can. The more you hate about yourself, the more those people who look down on you feels happier because they know you can never succeed in your life."

She actually make me tear a little when I read that. I didn't know how wonderful it was to have her in my life. It seems like she is the only one who does not think that I'm worthless at all. She is the kind of friend that you are truly grateful for.

And there is one more guy.

And that will be Mr Wong. Nevertheless, he is still a asshole. But he really gave me a lot of advices about what I should do and stuff. He might seems like a asshole, someone who doesn't care about whether you succeed or not, but he is not but actually the opposite. He told me that he will be happy to see me been able to study and make it.

I don't know, I just think that he is really a nice guy, a good friend.

I am thankful for this 2 people. If I've not met them, I will be a different guy who can't seek for help whenever I needed someone.

Now I'm still confused about what I am gonna do. whether am I staying in Singapore or not. What am I gonna work as? Getting married?

Well, I guess I will figure all this out pretty soon.

Have a pleasure night, people.

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Desmond= Confused..

I am, in fact, a person who always believe in every small little things in life. One thing bad about me? I trust people easily, in fact, too easily. That's why I'm always failing myself, getting upset over stuff I shouldn't be. I don't know, but I guess this is just me..

All I have now is nothing. I am confused. Which way to go? Which path should I take? All this are bad enough for me to handle but there's always something extra. Complications. This is driving me nuts.

I am worried about EVERYTHING. Every single thing that is happening or might happen.. Sigh..

CONCLUSION:

JUST LET ME GET OUT OF SINGAPORE ALREADY!!!

ARGH!!!

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Desmond= The World should change their "Stereo-Type" thinking..

Look at this and I hope you guys will know what is happening in our current world..

Look at what is happening around the world.. Human beings who are straight or what you call "normal" does not understand what this is coming from. They don't know how much pain their are causing to people from the LGBT community. For a matter a fact, Gay people does not have a choice to be who they are today.

"A 13-year-old New Mexico boy named Seth Walsh, had been tormented for years, Burns said. “Other students told him ‘the world didn’t need another queer.’.”

Seth’s mother found him hanging in the backyard. He lived for nine days on life support before dying a few days ago."

Extracted from the link below:

http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/dn/localnews/columnists/jfloyd/stories/101510dnmetfloyd.18d5a4bfb.html

He is only 13 year old. What have he done to deserve to die at such a young age? He is nothing but a teen who is confused about whatever he is feeling and has already been tortured inside, fighting to be what the world wants him to be. The above is just ONE of the teens that killed themselves due to all the cruelty coming from the world.

1 out of 10 human are born gay and what are they facing in the world today? Getting humiliate by straight people, getting bullied and the fear they have to face everyday from the outside world. Why do people like us get this? We don't deserve this. What we need is something really simple and basic called "Respect".

You will never understand how we feel since you're not born with it. You people got to understand that WE DON'T DESERVE THIS SHIT. We don't deserve all this. Why do we have to be the one? Why don't you put yourself in our shoes?

I have been trying to come out from my closet. I am a Bisexual and I like mens more than womens. Most of my friends know about this. And even my siblings and yet, I don't see anyone hating me for who I am.

I just doesn't have the guts yet to come out to my parents. I don't wish to hurt my mum.. I just can't. Simply because I love her too much. I do not wish to see her blaming herself and stuff. I just don't see the point.

Maybe one of this days, when I'm in a stable relationship and found someone that I'm confident enough to get married with, I will let my mum knows about this eventually. But now is just not the time yet.

It has always been a huge fear for me to accept myself for who I am. I choose not to believe I like men more than women due to the thinking of the world. After been through so much alone, I decided to only come out to people last year. And it makes me feel better.

I believe there are people who definitely doesn't accept the truth about me, but at least, I gain respect from them. It took me quite a long time to even figure out who I am, of course, it was never easy. I even have thoughts of ending my life because I doesn't know how to face everyone. How everyone will look and think about me.

The worst? I have no one to talk to. It was really hard and I doubt anyone will understand how I was feeling at the point of time unless you are from the LGBT community. But at least I am lucky enough to overcome the fear but there are still thousands or even millions of people who doesn't know how to face this and could only result to ending their very own lives..

So please.. We just need the world to accept everyone and we don't need your sympathy. All we need is a little respect and accept us for who we are. I really have to say this again, people from the LGBT community doesn't have a choice to be who they are today but at least we are brave enough to accept ourselves.

Sigh, I don't know who is gonna read this and how they are gonna react about this. Knowing about the real me..

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Desmond= It's never that easy..

Hey guys. I guess I am back blogging again. This month is gonna be a real tough month for me. Lots of stuff have been happening but still I am grateful for all my friends out there. By the way, No more Phuket trip. Cancelled due to some reasons which I would rather not talk about it..

Heartbreak is tough for everyone, but it seems extremely tough for me. Never ever had the idea that this will happen to me.. It's hard but what everyone has been telling me, Life still goes on and I got to move on instead of dulling in my own misery..

But the previous KL trip with Fu, Xiao mei and Pei jie was Awesome. We really had lots of fun enjoying or trip over there. And I doubt we will stop here. There is definitely gonna be more trips to other countries and I am really looking forward to that.

Don't you just love the above picture? I love how all the photos were taken. It looks great. And I love them both.

Gao Gao A.K.A Oswald ORD on the 21 of September.. I was pretty much upset. He had always been there for me, we had our very own Virgin trip to Malaysia with just the 2 of us and started travelling to KL, which obviously, I had lots of great time with him. And he is important to me, for one thing, if I never ever met him, I wouldn't have such amazing tattoos from my tattoo artist. He introduce JP to me. And I am really lucky about that.

I kinda feel upset and almost drop a tear or two when I gave him a hug and wish him the best in life. It just feel all weird without him in camp. But we made a promise to travel together every once a year whether I am in Singapore or not. And I think that's good enough.

So this year birthday is gonna be empty.. Quiet as plans for Phuket is cancelled.. Sigh.. I don't know. I am still trying to get over it.. Like what I said, this has cause a huge impact in my life.. I'm like a human without a shadow and like a empty human case walking around and doesn't seems to know what the hell is happening around me.

I hope I will have a blissful birthday with my people. I love them.

But for the good side, I have no more dreams about that person. I have been having dreams about that person, regardless of good or bad. But today, nothing, which is pretty good.

Alright people, please take care of yourself. You guys should notice about the crazily hot and humid weather in Singapore. I thought it's supposed to be the Monsoon season?.. Whatever.

You see, this is the reason why I never thought of staying in Singapore.

Take care peeps.

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Desmond= Life is never Easy.

Don't you just wish like one day you wake up from your bed and everything just go according to whatever or how you want it to be? Wouldn't life be much more simple with that? Always thought of it but know that it is never ever gonna happen, so I should drop that bloody idea.

Ain't the quote meaningful and interesting? But nope, it never work this way. It never will, at least for majority. Most human are just been real "Stereo-Types" about certain stuff. They will never understand how you feel. They didn't mean anything to hurt you, but sometimes you just wish to tell your loved one the truth. And the Truth is cruel.

A lot of people out there just can't accept the fact for who you are. Instead, they would very much wish to "Help" you to become the person that they wish that you are. What's the whole point? Even it does make them feel better, but would they even have the slightest consideration of how you feel?

They claim that they are been very acceptance of you, your situation but no they don't. You know how contradicting they sounds. How could someone be accepting you for who you are when they kept having the thought of changing you? Does that sounds like they are being acceptance?

Life is never normal. If life is normal, there wouldn't be people getting raped, murdered, abused, etc for no fucking reason.

If only the above path or signboard really do exists. I will simply bring those people who are not acceptance, doesn't understand you at all through that fucking path and totally change the way they look at you.

Maybe you might think," Desmond, why do you have to bother about whether people been acceptance of you at all? At least there are people out there who love you for who you are!". Very true. But the fact is, those people that I really wish that they can accept it are the people who I really love.

And by telling them all this, I will hurt them. They might even hate me for telling them the truth.

Just one thing, I really wish that people can totally understand that some people are just born this way. They don't have a fucking choice to make.

Get the point right, you stereo-types.

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Desmond= Zac Poor= Amazing!

Hey people! Nothing much to update but here is a very VERY nice song by Zac Poor. He is a soon to be Pop singer, which I personally feel that he will make it big. He will be like the next "Lady Gaga" or "Beyonce". Basically, he will be very much famous in the near future.

So just play this song and enjoy his very own unique voice. In fact I totally fell in love with this song the very first time I heard it in an Facebook game called "Nightclub City". And I told me myself, I GONNA Download this very own song! It's just simply amazing.

And the best part? You can actually download this song for FREE~ Isn't that Awesome?!

So this is the song:

VERSE
Red dress
First name basis
One touch
Got you naked, oh
Fall to the floor

Dark eyes
Heavy breathing
Daylight
Caught you leaving, no
You never spoke

PRE
Late night wonder
Undercover love
She's on the run

CHORUS
She'll be breaking hearts
She'll be taking them down
She'll be killing in a cold dark corner of love
That I know nothing about

She'll be breaking hearts
One kiss'll knock you out
You'll awaken with your chest wide open
The pieces laying all around
She'll be breaking hearts, hearts, hearts

VERSE 2
Slow pulse
Cold & lonely
She's hot
To the very core
Lock every door
Her smile
It's infectious
Beware
It's a weapon, don't
Don't bring her home

PRE 2
Cold cold lover
Takes another life
She's out there tonight

REPEAT CHORUS

BRIDGE
Hide your hearts and cover any signal that you love her
Never say you need her, she will come and she will hunt you down
Hide your hearts guys, hide your hearts guys
Hide your hearts and cover any signal that you love her
Never say you need her, she will come and she will hunt you down
Hide your hearts guys

REPEAT CHORUS

*End Of "She'll be breaking hearts"*

It is such a nice song right? Come on, just admit it.

And another great thing coming up, at least for me. And yes, that's my birthday week. So I'm kinda like spending my birthday this year differently. The trip to Phuket will NOT be cancelled as the tickets are already booked. Hahaha! I am very looking forward to Phuket.

Will be sitting on a PLANE!! Yes, I'm excited about the fact that I will be ON a plane because I've never being in one before. Maybe I did when I was a child. About 6 or so? I can barely even remember a single shit about that.

So yup~ This year. IT's different!! =D

Be happy for me, my fellow people.

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Desmond= Friends are always better than everything and anything.

Friends are people who are ALWAYS there, been supportive of what they do. But then, there are those who are also your friends but ain't supportive at all. At their very point of view, all they want is your very own good. And they choose to give you negative advices.. Of course, I don't blame them for all the "advices" that they give.

But there. I have a very good friend of mine. My best friend actually. Regardless of what decision I made, she will always be supportive and agree with whatever I do as long as I don't get myself into any trouble or anything that will endanger my life. And I am very happy that I have a friend like her.

Regardless of what happen, whether I'm happy or upset about anything, she will always be there for me. Which is definitely good and I consider myself very lucky to have such a great friend like her.

And below is that important woman in my life. =)

AND YEAH, That is no other than Miss Lim Pei Jie. =D I am seriously glad to have her in my life and sincerely thank her from the bottom of my heart. THANK YOU HOR, MISS LIM. =D

And also, another 3 important women who support me without fail. We have know each other for about 6 years and still, we have this strong bonding together. Even though everyone of us is busy with our very own life, but whenever we meetup, there wouldn't be a single Awkward moment with them. And they too, support whatever decision that I made. I love this three women. Life just feel all different without this three women.

And below are their pictures:

Miss Hui li.

Von Da jie and Ah mei.

Yes, they. And I love them indeed. Kinda miss them and we really gonna meetup soon ok? =)

All I need are friends who are supportive and those who can understand the situation that I am in. Ain't friends made to be that way?

Still, I thank you girls. =)

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There are people out there trying all kinds of ways to make you fall, you just gonna learn to stand on stable ground.

Heartbeats by LADY GAGA~

Any Kind-Hearted ready to sponsor me this Amazing Headphone? Black one please! Saw it in HMV!! Cost around $250!! Not too Expensive huh. =X

Birthday is coming~ Ok, maybe not that fast. October 23. =D

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Desmond= NS= Sucking my bank= Sucking my Life..

Sigh. National Service is totally "incredible". I didn't realize that my savings from my previous life is getting lesser and lesser over the months.. And I am freaked.. I have also thought that I , wouldn't allow my savings to go below a certain amount, but there, it's reaching that amount real soon..

Having 400 bucks allowance each month is definitely NOT enough support myself. I can imagine myself working now, earning nothing less than 1.2, saving up money for whatever reason but yet enjoying my life with friends and stuff.

I never used to think twice about buying something I really want or need, I would just grab it and go. But not anymore.. I can't get anything that I like or I need.. It is so very hard for me to survive with that fucking 400 bucks..

One thing that I also realize, I never have enough time for myself. I can't spend quality time with my loved ones and my friends. I can't. How can I do that when I spend most of my time in army? Like 5 days a week. Or should I say 6 since I go back to camp every Sunday night? Argh.. This is totally killing me.

I just hope that this, National Service, end as soon as possible. 9 months is a LONG way to go.. SIGH..

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Ever though of who to look for when you are upset, feeling troubled and alone?? And really needed someone to be by your side? Always look for this bunch of people call "friends". I mean seriously, having friends is something that human cannot live without. Friends are amazing. They are the people who will be there whenever you need them.

Friends are the people who can accept you regardless what kind of person you are. Seriously, I am pretty sure of this myself because I am a living example. =)

Being friends doesn't mean that you guys gotta meet up every single day, every single week. Friends will be forever when there ain't no awkward feelings at all and still be able to chat happily and do some real catching up.

This is the true meaning of friends.

And I wanna thank all my amazing friends out there. Those amazing people whom I call you guys my brothers and sisters. Thank you for everything.

Thank you Hao Lian Na, Pei Jie, Xiao Mei, Yan fu, Ken, Jeffery, Jimmy, Ah mei, Von Da Jie, Hui li, Stella, Jeryl and all those whom I didn't mentioned and you guys know that we are close friends.

I love all of you out there.

And people, please treasure your very good friends. Friends that are as close to you like your own brothers and sisters. They are the people who will be there for you whenever you need them. And they are the people who are gonna walk down the road with you.

=)

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No one understands how I feel.. Don't pretend that you do..

If hurting me is all you wanted, congratulation.

You have succeed...

I never ever choose to have this complicated life that I have..

I NEVER HAVE A CHOICE FOR WHO I AM...

Feeling so lonely, upset.. Stuff like this is definitely not easy for me to handle..

Huina, where are you... I need to talk to you..

Sign off..

This is not what I need...

Not Sarcasm...

Not Criticism...

But,

Blessing..

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Desmond= Back for good??

Hey. I guess I am back blogging again after the last post which was like 4 months ago. Too lazy to post about everything. But have been sick for 2 weeks and still not fully recovered yet. Lots have happen. Events like KL with Oswald, getting tattooed. And lots more shits have happen. So yeah. Can't be bother to update all.

But at least, I'm gonna update about my new tattoo. This amazing tattoo, created by my Artist, JP ( Jeans Paul) from Acid Crue.

Pictures below:

1. Outlining the tattoo, which took roughly around 4 hours or so. Free-handed done by my artist.

2. Shading done by my artist after 2 sessions with him. Took roughly around 10 hours to complete this. Can't really see the details. Instead of the usual shading, it's replaces with thousands or millions of lines to fill the inside of the tattoo. A great and tiring effort by my artist.

3. And finally, it's done. Nicely done. One of a kind in the whole world as this is created by my artist. =)

Really thank JP for all the hard work he had put for this tattoo. And it seems like he really likes it, definitely proud of this particular tattoo as he what claim, "something new" to try for his tattoo career and on me. I am really glad that I met him. All my tattoos are done by him except one. He is a real good artist and I believe he will be famous for his amazing artworks. Thanks bro for everything. =)

I guess life ain't that perfect after all. I don't know. Starting to feel lost, afraid of what's gonna happen after my National Service. Had this thinking of furthering my studies. But the least I got to do is to get a O level cert for myself. And really wish to be a major in English. I know this idea is stupid because the fact of getting this cert, it can't bring me far. But I really do wish to do this.

Or the second option is to study for O levels and study some other thingy that can helps me for my future career or whatever you ca[ll that.

The third option is to start to save a sum of money and start my life of Backpacking for the rest of my life. Living in a country for a period of time like 2 years or so and save enough money to travel to another country. And do this for a very very long period of time.

The last option is to take over my dad's business, which I really doesn't consider that. I just simply doesn't like the idea of working in the funeral world. Not fond of that at all.

But one thing for sure is I really do not wish to stay in Singapore. Maybe I'm just curious about the outside world. Would really wish to stay in Europe for a period of time and get to know the people there. Had always have this interest to stay in America. Part of the fact that I wish to get a major in English is because I wish to live in the States. I know is kinda stupid to have this kinda thinking. Or maybe not.

But I guess if I really wanna get a major in English, I will be studying in the UK instead of America. I mean Singapore is teaching us British English instead of American English. So yup. I still have doubt about this though.

For one thing I know, I would really wish to travel. Always believe that I wouldn't get an ordinary job and will never want to live my life and normal average life. Have always wanted my future to be doing something different from the norms. =)

But things to consider since I've kinda made up my mind about the whole "not-living-in-Singapore" kinda mindset. What am I going to do about my family and friends in Singapore? The fear of being humiliated from the people of the other country since I am from a different county and I doesn't speak a good and fluent English. Neither a British nor a American English but instead, a mixture of both. Sigh..

So much to think about.. So worry and confused.. Too bad then. I just hope someone or something could enlighten me for all this.

God, this is the longest entry ever for some 6 years of blogging. Gonna rest soon people. See you real soon and take care of your health. Bad weather in Singapore that can cause people to fall sick easily. A good example is me. Hahaa.

Ciao guys.

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